Many parents feel that screens have taken over their family’s lives. While few could argue about the benefits digital devices offer, as parents, it’s important that we establish guidelines for their use so they remain tools, rather than a source of endless distraction from real life.
Here are more tips for creating a life that balances online activities with those that can only take place in the 3-D world.
4. Avoid heated negotiations. Many kids are terrific lawyers in the making; they can be highly persuasive when they want something badly. Acknowledge their desire for “a few more minutes,” but be clear and decisive; don’t fan the flames of their frustration by engaging in angry negotiations that aren’t likely to yield a positive result.
5. Invest time in connecting. Spend time with your kids doing offline activities that nourish your relationship. Many parents are happy for their kids to spend hours plugged in because it gives them freedom to the things they want to do — including catching up on their own online activities. Whether it’s inventing a new dessert, hosting a father-daughter UNO championship or taking a family bike ride, make time for real-life activities with your kids that let them know that they’re worth your time and undivided attention.
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